An important role in ministry in a country parish is to be out there and get to know your parishioners in their environment, develop understanding and friendship.
One Sunday I said to a farmer I would like to visit him at home at a convenient time.
He said, “come to lunch”, and I did.
We had a beautiful roast and the best of hospitality.
Then we took a walk around the farm and I learned much of his skills, in good and bad times.
We began a friendship. He could trust my integrity and the fact that I was ready and able to listen to his problems.
After more chatting and afternoon tea, I excused myself with many thanks.
I drove back to the Manse with more appreciation of life on a farm.
A friendship developed and we knew we could be open with each other.
I learned much about farm life in good and difficult times.
He knew he could to speak to me at any time and a special pastoral relationship developed.